Mourn: Frequent references are found in Scripture to,1. Mourning for the dead.
a. Abraham mourned for Sarah
(Genesis 23:2)
b. Jacob for Joseph
(Genesis 37:34,35)
c. the Egyptians for Jacob
(Genesis 50:3-10)
d. Israel for
1. Aaron
(Numbers 20:29)
2. Moses
(Deuteronomy 34:8)
3. Samuel
(1 Samuel 25:1)
e. David for Abner
(2 Samuel 3:31,35)
f. Mary and Martha for Lazarus
(John 11:1)ff
g. devout men for Stephen
(Acts 8:2) etc.
2. For calamities,
a. Job
(Job 1:20,21; 2:8)
b. Israel
(Exodus 33:4)
c. the Ninevites
(Jonah 3:5)
d. Israel, when defeated by Benjamin
(Judges 20:26) etc.
3. Penitential mourning, by the Israelites
a. on the day of atonement
(Leviticus 23:27; Acts 27:9)
b. under Samuel's ministry
(1 Samuel 7:6)
c. predicted in Zechariah
(Zechariah 12:10,11)
d. in many of the psalms (
(Psalms 51:1), etc.).
Mourning was expressed,
1. by weeping
(Genesis 35:8) marg.;
(Luke 7:38) etc.;
2. by loud lamentation
(Ruth 1:9; 1 Samuel 6:19; 2 Samuel 3:31)
3. by the disfigurement of the person, as
a. rending the clothes
(Genesis 37:29,34; Matthew 26:65)
b. wearing sackcloth
(Genesis 37:34; Psalms 35:13)
c. sprinkling dust or ashes on the person
(2 Samuel 13:19; Jeremiah 6:26)
(Job 2:12)
d. shaving the head and plucking out the hair of the head or
beard
(Leviticus 10:6; Job 1:20)
e. neglect of the person or the removal of ornaments
(Exodus 33:4)
(Deuteronomy 21:12,13; 2 Samuel 14:2; 19:24; Matthew 6:16,17)
f. fasting
(2 Samuel 1:12)
g. covering the upper lip
(Leviticus 13:45; Micah 3:7)
h. cutting the flesh
(Jeremiah 16:6,7)
i. sitting in silence
(Judges 20:26; 2 Samuel 12:16; 13:31; Job 1:20)
In the later times we find a class of mourners who could be hired to
give by their loud lamentation the external tokens of sorrow
(2 Chronicles 35:25; Jeremiah 9:17; Matthew 9:23) The period of mourning for the dead
varied.
1. For Jacob it was seventy days
(Genesis 50:3)
2. Thirty days for:
a. Aaron
(Numbers 20:29)
b. Moses
(Deuteronomy 34:8)
3. for Saul only seven days
(1 Samuel 31:13)
In
(2 Samuel 3:31-35) we have a description of the great mourning for the
death of Abner.